What to Expect
Everything you need to know about joining a small group
What is a Small Group?
A small group is a gathering of 6-12 people who meet regularly to grow in faith together. Unlike large church services, small groups offer an intimate setting where you can build genuine relationships, ask questions, and support one another on your spiritual journey.
Groups typically meet weekly or bi-weekly in homes, parish halls, coffee shops, or online. Each group has a leader (or co-leaders) who facilitates discussions and helps the group stay on track.
What Happens at a Typical Meeting?
While each group has its own style, most meetings follow a similar pattern:
Welcome & Check-in (10-15 min)
Casual conversation, catching up on the week, and settling in together.
Opening Prayer (5 min)
Inviting God's presence and guidance for the time together.
Scripture or Topic Discussion (30-45 min)
Reading and discussing Scripture, a book, or a topic relevant to faith and life.
Sharing & Prayer Requests (15-20 min)
Members share what's on their hearts and pray for one another.
Closing (5 min)
Final prayer and any announcements about upcoming meetings or events.
Most meetings last 60-90 minutes. You're never required to share or pray aloud—participate at your comfort level.
What's Expected of Members?
Attendance
Try to attend regularly. Consistent presence builds trust and community. If you can't make it, let the group know.
Participation
Engage at your comfort level. Listening is valuable too. There's no pressure to have all the answers.
Confidentiality
What's shared in the group stays in the group. This creates a safe space for honest conversation.
Respect
Honor different perspectives and life experiences. We're all on a journey together.
How Long Do Groups Run?
It depends on the type of group:
- Ongoing groups (Men's, Women's, Bible Study) often continue indefinitely, with natural breaks for holidays and summer.
- OCIA groups follow the liturgical year, typically running from September through Easter Vigil.
- Study-based groups may run for a set number of weeks based on the curriculum (6-12 weeks is common).
What If a Group Isn't Right for Me?
Not every group is the right fit, and that's okay. If you find that a group's schedule, location, or dynamic doesn't work for you, you can gracefully step away. Simply let the leader know—no hard feelings.
We encourage you to try another group. Sometimes it takes a couple of tries to find your community. The goal is to find a place where you feel welcomed and can grow.
Tip: Give a new group at least 3-4 meetings before deciding. It takes time for relationships to develop and for you to feel comfortable.
Types of Groups
Men's Groups
A space for men to build authentic brotherhood, discuss the challenges of being a man of faith, and hold each other accountable. Topics often include leadership, family, work, and spiritual disciplines.
- Accountability partnerships
- Scripture and faith discussions
- Often meet early mornings or evenings
Women's Groups
A supportive community for women to grow in faith, share life's joys and struggles, and encourage one another. Topics often include prayer, relationships, vocation, and spiritual growth.
- Deep friendships and support
- Prayer and spiritual formation
- Daytime and evening options available
OCIA Groups
The Order of Christian Initiation of Adults (OCIA, formerly RCIA) is for those exploring the Catholic faith or preparing to receive the Sacraments. A structured journey through Catholic teaching and tradition.
- Runs September through Easter Vigil
- Preparation for Baptism, Confirmation, Eucharist
- Sponsors and mentors walk with you
Bible Study Groups
Dive deep into Scripture together. These groups focus on studying books of the Bible, understanding context, and applying God's Word to daily life. Open to all experience levels.
- Various study formats and curricula
- Often 6-12 week series
- Mixed groups welcome
Frequently Asked Questions
Do I need to know the Bible to join?
Not at all. Small groups welcome people at every stage of faith, from curious seekers to lifelong believers. You'll learn together.
What if I'm not Catholic?
Many of our groups welcome Christians of all backgrounds. OCIA groups are specifically designed for those exploring the Catholic faith. Check the group description for details.
Can I bring my spouse or a friend?
It depends on the group. Some groups are gender-specific (men's or women's), while others welcome couples or mixed groups. Check with the leader first.
What about childcare?
Some groups offer childcare, others meet while kids are at school, and some are kid-friendly. Look for this information in the group details or ask the leader.
Is there a cost to join?
Most groups are free. Some may ask for a small contribution for study materials or refreshments, but this is never required.
How do I find a group near me?
Use our group finder to search by location, group type, and meeting time.